Sir, I'm going to have to ask you to calm down.

A woman can never be incel.

That's all there is to say.

Oh wow, I registered on that other site last week and while I wasn't banned, I was warned by mods, told I was on their radar after some of my first posts were reported, and then they started going after my comments in unrelated threads where I'd said hardly anything, just to keep it hostile. I was really amazed at their attitude. I suspected they were trying to goad me into reacting strongly enough to earn myself a ban. I'm never logging on there there again.

Poor darkmind, that seems so unfair. He wasn't threatening suicide, he was simply including it as part of his history, but they applied the "NO MENTION OF SUICIDE!!" rule and went fascist on him. I know they're "not equipped" to deal with suicide... none of us are, but you can't say "You have a history of suicidal thoughts, I'm not equipped to deal with this, so I'm not talking to you if you mention it"? Very supportive. All of the literature says to be open to people who have suicidal thought, let them talk. But it seems they're saying "Who cares if the guy doesn't get any help, at least he didn't get possible-good help from the wrong people!".


I certainly found that Volkulja was offended by me in ways which I never intended. It was very bewildering.
I also felt they were judging what I said because I was new, not based on what I actually said. Untrusted poster syndrome.


Haha, that's hilarious, that sums up the place so well, from my brief visit.

I'm on my third account now The others were banned, and they never let me back in. Fortunately they don't run any checks on ip-address or something like that to weed out the people that just re-register. I expect to be banned eventually this time too. Maybe I should register accounts in bulk so I allways have a new username when it's eventually needed Mind you I never really said anything offensive and wasn't trying to troll them in any way, but if you say anything negative about feminism or try to say theres differences between men and women you're out. Watch out for volkulja she will try to take you down, and if you try to argue against her views you are automatically a male chauvinist pig that deserves a ban. She's sweet with the mods and apparently live to post on this board (she has 16 545 posts since february 2008), so don't challenge her at all if you want to keep your account.



Just adds to the impression that we're dealing with a social club for people with politically correct opinions here, and not an empathetic board that aims to give relief to the people out there struggeling with incel.



She (volkulja) will use shaming tactics to shut you up. She will say you're being insensitive against womens feeling or that you're making an unfair generalization. It's not about attacking your views. It's about attacking your emotions. She's a very clever girl

There are a couple of long-time posters there who are kind of starting to get it in regards to the "Kangaroo Court" mentality that has taken them over. They do make comments, but have to be very careful. New posters trying the same stuff would get banhammered immediately.

I estimate it'd probably take 2+ years of laying low until you could actually effect change there from the inside. Frankly though, I have better things to do with my time than save a bunch of guys who are too stupid to realize that parroting their party line is simply not helping them. (Hello Rich & aftrbrnr)

Not that this place is any better, mind you.

I just enjoy debating them, and watching them ban me for completely reasonable opinions.



At least you believe in freedom of speech.

picard, which were your first two nicknames? You can PM me if you want (but add your current name in that case, please)

Don't think I want to disclose that information The incel nutties may have inflitrated this board.

There is another forum that is operated in a strikingly very similar way as the incel forum. In fact, I think the mods there are the same exact mods! Or in cahoots with them. So are they sending goons here to scope us out or something?

I don't know, it's exactly like what Winston Wu says. When you talk about certain taboo subjects of society that go beyond political correctness or the "norm" you get alot of flack for it and everybody tries to strike you down.

I like this quote:


The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it.
-- George Bernard Shaw


They lack the ability (in my mind) to see an accurate picture of the world, so they keep to their wishfull thinking and try to strike down those who present opposing views. After all, opposing views may threaten their fairytale world and make them depressed or insecure. They have powerfull "guardians" in their own subconsious that makes them attack people like us.

There are a few decent tips. Myself I've managed to get temp banned for admitting truth about my life. The main thing I can see is that they are closed-minded as fuck, always concerned with comfort, and never willing to open their eyes and wake up to the fact that at the end of the day they are their own worst enemies to love.

I just found a video the incel forum made. OK, well, it's not them, but I thought it was. It describes the thoughts and feelings of the men there perfectly.

That is an abomination.

Utterly depraved.

I really hope that is a parody. "I realize, I wasn't alive when most of these men were oppressing you, but I feel compelled to apologize for my 'kind' and to speak in worship of your femininity."

You apologize for your "kind" even though you did nothing yourself? Now that isn't sexist at all. Holy fuck...

Yeah, Malek, that video really does nail down the Incel forum vibe. It's a great... If nauseating find there. I couldn't stomach watching even a quarter of it, apparently I can be thankful I didn't have to see or hear anyone speaking in person, during my time at that forum, as apparently hearing it spoken aloud is a whole new level of disturbing.