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PostPosted: 22 Feb 2012, 16:36 
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I never feel I'm good enough, and if I had extra courage/confidence that my friends seem to have bags of. I probably would have done better at school & uni. Feeling to scared to ask for help in a class/lecture was the bane of why I only came out with a lower 2nd class degree.

I'm now in a low paid job in a shop (which I do love) but I have no motivation to move up or go for anything better as I don't feel I'm that kinda person.


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I_Fail_at_Life wrote:
Maybe that's the reason why I am incel, because I am kinda an underachiever. I don't have much education (I failed college) and have a low-paying job. Also, I tend to never be really good at anything in particular. I don't seem to have any talent. My main hobby is video games but even in that I am not very good for someone who play as often. I play online and suck a lot against other people. I do my best at my job but there always seem to be much faster people than me. I was never good in sports. It seems that everything I do, I am not exceptionally good at it.

I don't know, maybe women are seeking winners, or men who are good at something?


There will always be people who are better than you. Always, and in every area of your life. So don't try to measure yourself against everyone.

I was a good pupil, a good student, and still, some people were better than me. In the end I just learnt something useful: I don't really care anymore about the results of others, but I care about what I think of myself. If I honestly think I did my best, well, that's all there is to it. I did my best, people were better than me, that's life. But if I know deep down I didn't do my best, I have reasons to be angry at myself.

I do the same at work, or at the gym: I just focus on my job, my work out, my results. For me it's the only way not to give way to doubts and self-deprecation.

Also, you may not have found something to give you focus or motivation.


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oncebitten55 wrote:
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I don't get why complete losers can get women like that.

Any idiot can get women. Our problem is we aren't idiots.


Love-shy doesnt = "loser".

I know that for a fact and I have the trophy's to prove it too.

No we are not stupid; in fact it has occured to me that many of us are "thinkers", and that might be a core
problem with LS/Incel/introverted men and women.

Too many people on this sad planet _DO NOT THINK_, they just do "whatever", and usually end up in messy
divorces and so on.

One piece of wisdom I know to be true: "Not planning ahead, is planning to fail".

Too many humans do exactly that, IMO.


Logic is power.

Knowledge is power.

Instrospection is power.

Thinking outside the box is power too.

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