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Stranger1983
 Post subject: Salutations
PostPosted: 13 Mar 2012, 18:23 
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Hello everyone,

I am new here as well.

I dont know what to say other than, I'm 28, I live with my dad, and no one understands what its like for me in this situation. I've had so many what I've seen reffered to as oneitis' that I feel I cannot even contemplate being involved with women anytime in the near future. Regardless of the fact that I DESPERATELY want to feel loved and appreciated for the man I am, not what I'm wanted to be.

My main hobbies that I use to compensate, are my carrer, and the work I put into it to ignor my sex drive, working out every day to wear my sex drive down, and smoking marajuana before bed to dull my sex drive away.

I take SSRIs due to strong and persistant depression and anxiety this also helps with keeping my libido subued.

NICE TO MEET EVERYONE :chill: :sunglasses:

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PostPosted: 13 Mar 2012, 18:31 
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Welcome, I hope you can find some solace posting among like minded friends! :toast:

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Hello mate. Almost all guys here want love and affection, so you are not the only one.

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"There has been no genetic change since we were hunter-gatherers, but deep in the mind of modern man is a simple hunter-gatherer rule: strive to acquire power and use it to lure women who will bear heirs; strive to acquire wealth and use it to buy affairs with other men’s wives who will bear bastards . . . Wealth and power are means to women; women are means to genetic eternity.

Likewise, deep in the mind of modern woman is the same hunter-gatherer calculator, too recently evolved to have changed much: strive to acquire a provider husband who will invest food and care in your children; strive to find a lover who can give those children first-class genes. Only if she is very lucky will they both be the same man . . . Men are to be exploited as providers of parental care, wealth and genes." - Matt Ridley "The Red Queen"

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Welcome to the board. I hope talking to those who suffer a fate similar to yours helps. It has helped me. I used to think I was the only one without any success with women and I beat myself up over it. Venting in this place has helped me maintain my sanity, plus some of the members are really likeable :D.

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Welcome to the forum :) Apart from this forum, do you have any other interactivity with females online Stranger1983?

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Webley Tempest wrote:
Welcome to the forum :) Apart from this forum, do you have any other interactivity with females online Stranger1983?


Interactivity with females online? Its not interactive, but I do watch quite a bit of free internet porn when I fancy it.

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Stranger1983 wrote:
Webley Tempest wrote:
Welcome to the forum :) Apart from this forum, do you have any other interactivity with females online Stranger1983?


Interactivity with females online? Its not interactive, but I do watch quite a bit of free internet porn when I fancy it.


lol okay :) guess I was a bit vague sorry. I meant things like online female acquaintances or the like.

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"Omnem crede diem tibi diluxisse supremum." - Horace, Epistle., I.iv.13
"Dovie'andi se tovya sagain." - Mat Cauthon, Wheel of Time (Robert Jordan)
"Give me back my face!" - Rorschach, Watchmen (2009)
"A man who fears nothing, is a man who loves nothing, and if you love nothing, what joy is there in your life?" - Arthur, First Knight (1995)
“Be without fear in the face of your enemies. Speak the truth, always, even if it leads to your death. Safeguard the helpless and do no wrong. That is your oath…” - Balian, Kingdom of Heaven (2005)
“Everything that happens once can never happen again. But everything that happens twice will surely happen a third time.” from 'The Alchemist', Paulo Coelho
"Train yourself to let go, of everything you fear to lose." - Yoda, Episode III
"I didn’t know how empty I was. She sustains me, she thrills me." - Marke, Tristan & Isolde (2006)
"There is a strange sense of reassurance in the inevitability of something." - Webley Tempest
"If you have no friends, you won't ever feel inferior." - Webley Tempest
'Omnia vincit amor.'
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Webley Tempest wrote:
Stranger1983 wrote:
Webley Tempest wrote:
Welcome to the forum :) Apart from this forum, do you have any other interactivity with females online Stranger1983?


Interactivity with females online? Its not interactive, but I do watch quite a bit of free internet porn when I fancy it.


lol okay :) guess I was a bit vague sorry. I meant things like online female acquaintances or the like.


hmmm, no, not really. I have more interactions with people in general IRL, than over the internet. I guess thats the most painful part, just being an observer of normal human behavior, but never being allowed to participate in it.

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