This. I get ignored, literally, everywhere I go. It's like I'm invisible and never said anything.

BS, from the posts I've seen from you, you are a decent guy. BF material? Look at who girls like these days. If that is BF material, do we really want to be some self absorbed narcissistic douche?

A mixture of creepiness and non existence.

either non-existant or creepy, I suppose

I'm the "good guy but not dating material". While I'm often anonymous and not noticed, the "nice guy but no chemistry" or "no romantic connection, but I'd like to be friends" are common reactions from women I've attempted to date.

[quote="alienafternoon"]Well, I approached a girl today, asking her where the vending machines were.

She called me 'sweetie'...*facepalm*
/quote]

I'm going to start asking some ladies where the vending machine is more often, and I suggest you do the same.

Honestly? I don't have the foggiest clue of what women think about me.

I have no social awareness whatsoever. What other people think of me is a complete mystery to me, and I have no idea how my looks and behaviour (let alone my more subtle characteristics) affect them and their opinion of me. And I know for a fact that that's one of the main reasons behind my utter lack of romantic experience.

In my situation, the dating game is like playing chess while not being able to see your own pieces.

I'm simply non-existent.

Honestly I wish I knew definitively. Obviously not all women will have the same opinion, but even the general consensus so far isn't that great. I'm typically the quiet overlooked guy, though I'm sure at some point in my life I was considered creepy and/or unattractive. Doesn't help that what I see in the mirror kinda backs up all the negative stuff, and since what I see/how I feel about my self-image varies, I have no real idea what to think of myself let alone what women think hahaha.

How about "treated like a child."

Essentially I am thought of as immature and then ignored. I don't read into the terms of endearment. They'll say that to everyone they greet, and 5 seconds later give you a fuck off signal.

Quiet, Funny, WEIRD... I get WEIRD a lot. Yeah they like me, they just like every other dude more.

90% of the time completely ignored to the degree that I'm surprised that they don't
accidently bump into me. The other 10% of the time, nice, but not bf material. Like
another poster mentioned I think some of it has to do with the fact that I "look" so
young, like still in my teens even though I'm in my 30's. For those few girls who do
notice me I feel like they treat me as if I am not a man. When I do try to talk to girls
they will usually quickly excuse themselves to go talk to someone else instead.
And the girls at church are the worst, at least girls at school will usually acknowledge
me, though usually it's because they want answers or help from me.

They think i'm attractive at first but then they find out about my bizarre behavior.

Creepy. I've actually heard it before. "yeah, she was like, 'that dude's creepy'...sorry, man."

They treat me with respect and friendliness, however, it does very rarely go beyond that or they even don't care.