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Holy Guacamole! I forgot I had an account here.

I has updates!

After going out with several people using this site, it is a hell of a mixed bag. The main hurdle to begin with is the first initial message. Sending something that actually shows that you read her profile helps distinguish you from the 30 something other guys that send "Hey! What's up?". For instance, if in her profile, she says she's a fan of sushi, say "My favourite sushi is xyz roll. What's yours?" Even though this seems fairly insignificant at first, if y'all hit it off (wait a while, talk for a few days), eventually, if your feeling courageous, say "You remember talking about sushi a few days ago, wanna go to the sushi place on Pearson Blvd. and grab a bite".

Most of the time, i sent out around 15 messages a day and some days I got responses, sometimes I didn't. Don't get discouraged about it! When you're talking to someone through a digital screen, in a way, it disconnects a part of your brain that says you're talking to a real person. It honestly took a while for this "disconnect" to happen. The first few times I chatted, I had to drink a couple beers and do some self face slaps to get my hands to stop shaking!

Due to the advent of the last few months, there has been "Great Success". I know Borat references are so 2009 but couldn't help it! I ended up going out with a girl on St. Paddys Day. I got a hotel room too. I wasn't necessarily planning for :coolbeans: to happen, i purely wanted a place to crash because i'm not a fan of drunk driving 35+ miles back home when the roads are crawling with the fuzz. I went into it with zero expectations. When we first met eachother, there was lots of awkward silence and stammering by both parties (later on, she told me she has intense anxiety when meeting members of the opposite sex so she may be LS as well). As we started to drink, we both loosened up, talked, and found we had a lot in common. After a few hours, we both started getting tipsy. Then these crazy frat guys sat down in our booth out of nowhere and started buying us drinks. I got more drunk and pulled out my "Hulk Hogan" impression. After that, the frat guys left and she said "That was the best impression ever" and we started kissing. If you told me a few months back that my stupid impression would have get me laid, I would have called you a HUGE liar. After that, we literally staggered to my hotel room, got a thumbs up from a cop who thanked me for not driving tonight.

Due to my mentality of "never getting your hopes up", when we finally got to the room, I thought we were just going to sleep. Thankfully, she had other plans and "fireworks" happened. This turned into a relationship that went on for a few months before she got crazy and emotional, like cussing me out for literally no reason and I ended up the relationship. I shouldn't have waited as long as I did to end the relationship but due to turning into a bit of a sex fiend, I kept limping the relationship by due to awesome sex (looking back on this, i was wondering what the hell am I turning into).

Why am I posting here again, last night, I ended my 2 week dry spell. It's funny how that relationship changed me! I turned from an anxiety ridden mess to a fiend. For the first time, I actively approached people with confidence. Girls even approached me for once (even though the two times it happened, they were both in their mid/upper 30's and even though that's out of my age range, it sure put more fuel in my confidence tank). I did meet this new girl online however (i have yet to bridge getting a girls number going into a bar which was my initial goal, one step at a time I guess). Ironically, I broke her 2 year dry spell. We both had a big laugh after finding all this out. I was very surprised I did this due to not having liquid courage to help me out. Somehow I got everything to progress to a simple handholding to :coolbeans: in the span of an hour.

In conclusion folks, i'm not saying my LS is dead and gone, it is still there. It's actually there in EVERYONE (probably even Johnny Depp and Brad Pitt who can get any girl in the world by snapping their fingers) in my opinion. It just manifests itself in a different way. If I went into a date without a healthy level of anxiety/anticipation, I wouldn't talk to someone, waiting a couple extra seconds until i'm sure my reply to a question was appropriate.

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I've tried these sites before without any luck but I can see from reading here that I've been making some mistakes. Perhaps I'll have to try again


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ieatboogers, this is great advice, and I intend to try it. Thanks for taking the time to do this.


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Over the last few months I have taken Ieatbooger's advice regarding sex sites, and I am not quite sure what to make of it.

I have posted what I thought were decent photos of myself, and to my initial surprise I am getting few e-mails from women who appear to be interested.

The problem is, most of the women who message me, are young, very young say aged between 24 -30, and are hot, some smoking hot, and I have enough common sense to know that "if something seems too good to be true, it's because it usually is". I strongly suspect these women are scammers, or fake messages sent by the owners of the site to stop men from cancelling their subscriptions.

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Has anybody had any experience with Craigslist? Seems the personals section on there is teeming with people looking for NSA sex. Hard to tell whether these people are legitimate or not.

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When it comes to those type of places I tend to think 'they are up to no good'.
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What if you don't have a car (never needed one)..


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Hey all,

This is my first post here, and I'm not sure if anyone is expecting an introduction. So here it is: hi!

So I realize this thread is almost 4 years old, but ieatboogers, it looks like you're still active on here. I have some questions for you:

- You say that one should mention something other than sex in the first message. What if the only thing the woman talks about in her profile is sex?
- How soon do you mention sex? In the first message?
- Do you actually tell these women that you want to have sex with them, or is that assumed? Do you go into details of what you'd like to do them sexually? If so, at what point do you get into this kind of talk?
- I've noticed that some women have fairly conservative profiles and photos, and other women post actual photos of themselves performing sex acts. Do the answers to any of the above questions change if, for example, a woman has photos on her profile of her performing oral sex?
- Do you, at any point in your correspondence with these women, send naughty photos of yourself to them?

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Google image search works wonders on sex sites and dating sites. If a woman messages you and she looks like a model, then do an image search.

I did one once with someone who said she was in London, and it turns out after a google image search, she lives in Russia and has a husband and a baby daughter. So I told her to go and crawl back under the stone she came from, cause I'm too smart for scammers.

After having used online dating sites for a number of years on and off, I can spot a scammer a mile off :) If you think someone is trying to scam you or suspect a scammer, feel free to PM me on here and explain why and I'll tell you if they are or not :)


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Yes true. Also don't forget that most, if not all scammers, want to take you off site into email immediately and also profess their 'love' for you in a matter of messages.

Some of them sound like bots because some cannot speak English and use online translators to have a conversation with you.


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