Farthest you've gotten with girl you have oneitis for

JadedRomantic · **Posted:** 28 Sep 2010, 21:08

Just what the title says. How far have you gotten with that elusive girl? I don't mean have you slept with her or kissed her, but smaller things. Have you spoken to her? Made eye contact with her? Admitted to family or friends that you have a crush? Or are you just an admirer from afar?

alienafternoon · **Posted:** 28 Sep 2010, 21:15

Spoken to her, made eye contact, become friends. Also asked her out, and been rejected.

Tex · **Posted:** 28 Sep 2010, 21:38

Uh... nowhere.

Haitian Fight Song · **Posted:** 28 Sep 2010, 21:41

I don't think I really ever had oneitis. I've liked a lot of different girls, but I could never do anything about it. I was never intensely focused on one, though. There are several that I look back on with regret. One I am close with still would lay her head on my shoulders or hug me a lot last year (I think these were IOIs?). I've noticed that she's a lot less touchy with me these days. I'm pretty sure I had an opportunity there that I wasted.

TheLoneWolf · **Posted:** 28 Sep 2010, 22:22

For the most part just admire her from afar. A few times made eye contact and smiled at her. The rare times where small talk was involved it was always her initiating.

SuckstobeLoveShy · **Posted:** 28 Sep 2010, 22:38

I've gotten farther with completely random girls than I have with ones I've had oneitis for.

astrosleuth · **Posted:** 28 Sep 2010, 22:41

talking to them, becoming friends...coffee with one, partied with some of them at one point (in a big group, of course), nothing further.

Admitted to one that I liked her in that way, but she said, "As a friend, I'm warning you..."

wornaki · **Posted:** 28 Sep 2010, 22:52

TheLoneWolf wrote:

For the most part just admire her from afar. A few times made eye contact and smiled at her. The rare times where small talk was involved it was always her initiating.

Practically x2, except that I've said hello a bunch of times and that it was she who answered back. As for small talk, it's easier when you're both part of a group, which was my case.

e_i-2 · **Joined:** 04 Jul 2009, 06:38 **Posts:** 5298

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Adam82 · **Posted:** 29 Sep 2010, 01:29

NineInchNails wrote:

Spoken to her, made eye contact, become friends. Also asked her out, and been rejected.

Exactly the same here. That's the furthest I've ever gotten... good friends with the object of my oneitis. But when I wanted to go further, she said no.

Rossini · **Posted:** 29 Sep 2010, 02:54

Asked her out, spanked her ass, probably could of had sex with her. But I wanted a relationship and she refused so fuck her.

loveablenerd · **Posted:** 29 Sep 2010, 03:08

Hugs, good friends (friendzone), went out on numerous friend-dates, talked to for hours on end on the phone... went on road trips together.... unfortunately I was just the intellectual whore/cuddle bitch/emotional tampon and there was always a bad boy "boyfriend" who got the benefits.

Well, that was a past tense oneitis... did you mean present tense e_i? Because I haven't suffered oneitis for quite awhile now, thank GOD!

e_i-2 · **Joined:** 04 Jul 2009, 06:38 **Posts:** 5298

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loveablenerd · **Posted:** 29 Sep 2010, 03:57

e_i-2 wrote:

loveablenerd wrote:

Well, that was a past tense oneitis... did you mean present tense e_i? Because I haven't suffered oneitis for quite awhile now, thank GOD!

I didn't make this thread - present, past? whatever works

Actually I haven't had present oneitis in a while or at least no oneitis to the scale of my former ones.

Whoops! Don't know why I thought you were the OP e_i, other than I think you might have asked questions like this in similar topics? Anyway, my bad!

Did you mean past or present tense LikeDylanInTheMovies?

JadedRomantic · **Posted:** 29 Sep 2010, 06:18

I'm the OP, and I guess I was thinking current oneitis, but anything really works. The more stories the merrier.

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