I've been alright friends with most of them. One of them even got touchy feely at times. But we were young.

Holding her hand. Kissing her. Expressing my love. Unfortunately it was rejection as a boyfriend. Platonic friend, no problem.

I got comfortable enough, and close enough, to hold her hand, give hugs, and light physical contact (a touch on the arm or shoulder, etc). Many women don't allow you to do this, unless you're quite close with her. I am lucky to have got that far.

oneitis

It was kind of like taking each other by both hands, as we parted, as a goodbye gesture. And sometimes an affectionate caress of her shoulder.

Yeah she slept on my bed.

never been very focused on one girl. usually interested in several different girls. never got anywhere really.

Ninety minutes with her to myself. Before you jump to any conclusions, what I mean is that I got to have a ninety minute conversation with her one-on-one, nothing more. She was a waitress, who I was smitten for almost as soon as I locked eyes with her. As you can imagine, I started visiting the restaurant where she worked rather often from then on (maybe 3-4 times a month; though I should note, the food was good too, it's close, and the prices were awesome! It's not like I was just going to see some girl). At first, I would just make eye contact with her and smile, and she would smile back. Soon, she'd start to have short conversations with me whenever I came in; nothing too serious, just friendly stuff. I was convinced she liked me though, so ... eventually I worked up the courage to ask for her e-mail address. Outright rejection. Very painful. But ... we continued to talk friendlily whenever I went in there. Couple months later, I gathered the courage to straight up ask her out when she said she had no plans. Again, rejection.

I kept going, though, and we kept having conversations occasionally, and on one particularly notable day it was just me and her in the restaurant for the greater part of two hours (about ninety minutes total). I sat next to her, and actually did manage to make her laugh and smile a lot that day (and she even said she had fun with me afterwards!), but ... by this point I'd been going to the restaurant for a good eight months. Whatever ship had been there, it had already sailed.

Kinda gave up on her after that. I still go there from time to time though, and for reasons I'm still not entirely sure of, she's outright cold towards me these days. No smiles, no friendly conversation, actively avoiding me whenever she can. And when I do try and talk she'll just blow me off. The restaurant is close to where I work, and some of my coworkers knew about my crush, so it's possible one of them said something (what, I have no way of knowing), but actually, I'm kind of glad. When she was friendly and kind it was hard to hate her, and easy to fool myself into thinking she liked me. Now she scarcely leaves room for doubt.

Yep, I was an idiot. I'd like to think I've moved on though. And these days I just say, "Whatever, at least she was good practice," and I've continued on with my long-term goal of becoming a better person, getting better with women and (eventually) getting a long-term partner. Thankfully, my coworkers have been helping me out recently in this regard; they decided to set me up with a girl from work, and we've been going out recently. I dunno where things are gonna go with her, but at least it takes my mind off one-itis girl.

She actually added me on Facebook. Weird huh

So did mine...and mine was the only one who wished me a Happy Belated Birthday through chat on FB...only one who wished me a Happy Birthday period on FB...although my cousin emailed me.

yeah, I chatted with her too...

Pretty much sums it up.

Same here.

walked past her, all sweaty, within an inch while she was with another guy, could feel the tenseness. That was the only real oneitis thus far

Boyfriend and girlfriend. Kissed on the lips. Would have had sex, but I was too scared.