LMAO!!

Yep, those ones. I don't know whether to laugh or cry when I hear these girls say things like "I need a mature man who has it together". Like wtf do you have to offer anyways? Oh yeah...we all know the answer to that.

Maybe Mikey should recognise the distinction between peacocking and walking around with an axe. Well I suppose you could always say you have a big chopper or something.

Ive been hit on by gay guys quite often; I actually feel quite flattered and guess they feel rejection much the same way as when a girl rejects me. I suppose the additional risk would be if they approached a homophobe.

It is most likely that what a woman feels when rejecting very much depends on her as an individual, mood, setting and a thousand other factors.

Yeah man.

It's high time we thought about what the hell a woman has to offer US, and not the other way around.

Yep, that's the proper alpha way of thinking. Counter-intuitive as it sounds, I've heard the theory that having high standards makes you more attractive to women, as they'll see such a guy as having high value/status.

Of course, that doesn't mean those standards can be realisitic if you're fat/ugly/have nothing going for you/no social skills/etc. So we still have to work on ourselves.

Yeah. But it goes both ways. Seen those fat, middle aged, ugly women that think they're entitled to Edward from Twilight? What makes them think they deserve that? It seems to me all women, no matter if they're rich or poor, good or bad, moral or immoral, aspie or neurotypical, pretty or ugly, conservative or slutty, young or old, all go for the same narrow type of men. The worst thing that ever happened to this world was the shift of power in the relationships game, to women's advantage. Because they can't make good decisions, and have taste in men up their asses.

Adam, you say *all women*. Out of curosity, do you see me going for a narrow type of man? If so, how out of interest?
Also, how do guys feel when they reject women?

Actually, that makes sense. Its not like theres a limited availability for the alphas. they have plenty of time to bang all the women so long as they arent hideous, whereas the hot chicks obviously wont have time to shoot a kid out for every male lol. its just evolutionary biology i guess.

Sorry, I was feeling especially bitter this morning. No offence intended!

From what I've read here, there are quite a few men who have felt great when rejecting women, but I guess it's partly justified because they're LS/incel so they don't get to do it very often, and there were other motives for the rejections.

I've only knowingly rejected a girl once and I didn't feel a thing at the time, but then it started to haunt me.

I don't usually feel good about rejecting a girl. Usually when I reject her, she's either because she's A) obese or B) too young (as in, illegal).

There was only one time when I felt good about doing it. It was a girl who I previously had a crush on, and we flirted back and forth all the time. However, I noticed she would try to get me to do her job for her, and she was using her looks to get other male coworkers to do things for her, so I cut her off. I just don't have respect for women like that. And she already had a boyfriend that whole time!!! She was such a tease/attention whore.

So several months pass. I get this call on the phone (I had quit that job) from some girl. I wasn't sure who it was, and she told me to guess. My mind was completely off her, so I started guessing the names of all my female friends. I didn't realize it at the time, but that probably pissed her off even more, lol!! So she was trying to convince me to go out with her, but I knew what she was about, so I told her she wasn't interested. Back to the old , but at least I kept my integrity.

I have just joined and I am a woman so will try to answer. The short answer is it depends on the woman. I don't think it's helpful to say all women are teases or like to mess men around or go for alpha males or whatever because that isn't true. Just as it isn't true to say all men cheat or all men are rapists or all men tell lies. There are some bad people out there, not just men and not just women. I know the men on here have had a hard time with women (else you wouldn't be here) but that doesn't mean all (or even most) women are attention seekers that enjoy messing about with men's feelings.

I have had to end relationships with guys a few times and never once have I enjoyed it. Every time I felt upset and hated hurting the guy. I always tried to do it in as kind a way as I could. Contrast that with how my ex ended our 4 year relationship - a quick chat on the phone saying things weren't working for him followed up with an "it's over" email the next day. Refused to talk to me or see me. That after 4 years. Would be wrong for me to say all men are awful because of that now wouldn't it?

Why?

Why have I ended relationships?

The last time was because he became very controlling towards me. It got to the point where I couldn't go out with female friends as he would get into a bad mood and sometimes he would insist on coming with me (seriously what man wants to go see a chick flick at the cinema with 3 women?). If he didn't come with me he would phone me constantly and leave angry messages if I didn't answer demanding to know why I didn't answer (perhaps because phone was switched off in cinema?) and he would be in a bad mood the whole day I was due to go out and would barely speak to me. We lived together and I paid MOST of the bills, had debts and he (unsurprisingly) never seemed short of money.

Before that is such a long time ago (I am 34) I can't really remember well but once was for cheating.