words that best describe me

sexless, asexual, aloof,

repressed, not-grounded, fantasy minded, daydreamer, unrealistic

This describes my life perfectly, as well. Head in the clouds, dreamer, lives in fantasy land, aloof, sexless.

Same... except for the period of time when I wasn't sexless. I never stopped being a dreamer or a so-called man-child.

Which just goes to prove Pleiades' words in my signature are spot on.

I don't think my family or aquaintances even equate the word 'sexual being' with me.

I hope you don't mind me asking, but when you had a relationship, loveablenerd, did it generally improve your happiness? I have been guilty of thinking that a relationship is like a catch all solution to depression. I now know that you can't expect another person to be entirely responsible for your happiness. But I'd like to think a relationship would at least make me happier. Gilmartin seems to think so.

"I hope you don't mind me asking, but when you had a relationship, loveablenerd, did it generally improve your happiness? I have been guilty of thinking that a relationship is like a catch all solution to depression. I now know that you can't expect another person to be entirely responsible for your happiness. But I'd like to think a relationship would at least make me happier. Gilmartin seems to think so."

Being in a sexual relationship with a girl is not the apple of the eye for most people. But you are loveobsessed, not love shy. Sex doesnt heal a shit. GF is nothing but a male friend in disguise. Love yourself, that should do the trick.

I think you have just described the bulk of everyone on this forum with those few vague descriptions. We are seen as asexual because we have never been seen with a partner of any kind. We’re daydreamers because... well how many people here are happy with their lives? Fuck, if I don’t drift off into fantasy land every few minutes I’d have probably killed myself by now.

As for being in a relationship being a quick sure-fire cure shortcut to happiness...Well speaking as an intelligent man, I got to say no. However speaking as Love Shy, it currently stands as my only hope in the monochrome boring life that I now find myself encased in.

"I think you have just described the bulk of everyone on this forum with those few vague descriptions. We are seen as asexual because we have never been seen with a partner of any kind. We’re daydreamers because... well how many people here are happy with their lives? Fuck, if I don’t drift off into fantasy land every few minutes I’d have probably killed myself by now.

As for being in a relationship being a quick sure-fire cure shortcut to happiness...Well speaking as an intelligent man, I got to say no. However speaking as Love Shy, it currently stands as my only hope in the monochrome boring life that I now find myself encased in."

Yeah, I understand. But youve gotta deal with it. Now, the reality gives us the apparent Hobson's choice of being Love- Shy. Lets just assume that we are. So what? Its the most obvious choice: to be a bitter Love- Shy or a happy Love- Shy. You'd like to pick the bitter Love- Shy. Why? Why on earth. Pick million dollars or one dollar. I'd pick the million dollars. Own up your part of this deal because its huge. Ive been cured from Love- Shy: I think I am too weird so Ive just given up. Ive got fantastic friends and I am now a "happy Love- Shy". Come on and join me.