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PostPosted: 30 Jun 2011, 04:32 
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Good stuff Doc, hope there is more to come. :clap:

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So, is this normal? Getting serious oneitis with your first kiss? I swear, over the past forty eight hours, I have experienced the full range of human emotions.

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My first kiss was with a woman I didn't consider a potential girlfriend (and vice-versa). First held hands with another one and I didn't really care about her. While it was a nice experience, I had the feeling I'm *forcing* myself to that not because I really like this girl, but I want to *learn* intimate things. Duh, quite frustrating. I wasn't able to have sex this way, even when there was opportunity.

And the night I first kissed, a drunken man attacked me after I refused to give him some money and broke my nose (on my way home in night bus). I must be that karma thing :lol:


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The Doctor wrote:
So, is this normal? Getting serious oneitis with your first kiss?

Yeah I guess, I'd tell you if I got one one day...

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Congratulations for breaking your shyness.

It's sad that you happened to fall in love with someone who cannot reciprocate, but hopefully the experience has made it easier for you to initiate with someone else.

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So, is this normal? Getting serious oneitis with your first kiss? I swear, over the past forty eight hours, I have experienced the full range of human emotions.

Can't really comment, but I can imagine you must be going through an emotional roller coaster.

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So, according to JJ, I'm a 2 and therefore unlikely to get even a 'fat ugly chick'. I'm not tall. I'm not in shape. I'm not a bad boy. I'm a virgin. And yet I STILL managed to get some.

I'm afraid this message will fall onto deaf ears, Doc.

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All kinds of congratulations! Like others have said, I hope this can be valuable experience in future attempts at romance, even if this one can't happen. (On that, don't let yourself get stuck on this girl. I'm sure it was a great night, but if you could do it once you can do it again--chase the emotions, not the girl.)

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So, is this normal? Getting serious oneitis with your first kiss? I swear, over the past forty eight hours, I have experienced the full range of human emotions.


Of course! You've never been that close to anyone. But, you know. See above comments.

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Despite the fact that you have got a Katy Perry song in my head with this thread title, congratulations on many things - having the confidence to be social with someone, to be close to someone, to have physical contact. Take all the good stuff from it.


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My first kiss was with a woman I didn't consider a potential girlfriend (and vice-versa). First held hands with another one and I didn't really care about her. While it was a nice experience, I had the feeling I'm *forcing* myself to that not because I really like this girl, but I want to *learn* intimate things. Duh, quite frustrating. I wasn't able to have sex this way, even when there was opportunity.

And the night I first kissed, a drunken man attacked me after I refused to give him some money and broke my nose (on my way home in night bus). I must be that karma thing :lol:

I got head butted in the face by some yob about an hour after my first kiss.

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I kissed a girl's feet. Does that count?

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I got head butted in the face by some yob about an hour after my first kiss.

The first time my first real GF and I kissed, we accidentally headbutted each other... so hard apparently that it made such a loud noise that a friend in the next room said she could hear from there and offered us some ice.

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I moved away, knowing that she wasn't technically single


Actually she is technically single. If she isn't married, then she is TECHNICALLY single!

Whenever I see someone make such a statement, it always bothers me. Because, if a girl or guy isn't married, then that person is obviously technically single, regardless if they are currently dating 0 persons, 1 person or 10 persons. If someone is not married, then that person is technically free to date whomever he/she wants.

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Well, no.

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Well, yes.

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Just because she hasn't chosen to partake in a legally/religiously sanctioned marriage doesn't mean she's not committed. There are many valid alternatives to marriage.


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You are missing the point. The point is not whether a girl (or guy) is committed or not, but whether that person is TECHNICALLY single. If a girl just has boyfriend (and is not married to him) then TECHNICALLY she is single. That is a fact.

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