Well I'm 6'1" and of athletic stature. I may not be Brad Pit but I'm not exactly ugly. I mean, women don't shrink from me in horror when they first see me.

So IMO, I don't think women place quite such high importance on looks as men do. The reason could be is because a man needs to get a hard on in order to perform whereas women don't, so the pressure is not there to the same extent.

I've seen pleanty of short fat people with girlfriends, a surprising few I've seen with quite attractive girlfriends. I've seen some real saddo looking people with georgious girlfriends. I've seen clapped out 55 year old ex chainsmoking ex alcoholic lecturers with georgious girlfriends half their age. I've seen hard up ugly gits (neds) with nice girlfriends.

I don't think therefore money and good looks are prime obsticles. Ah and yes, I've seen guys who are well heeled who were also LS.

If you know Winston Churchills biography, he was LS but because he was so incredibly rich and well connected, he had collosal support and confidantes to help him get up the courage to ask out Clementine. Had he been eligiable today he would be on this forum, because I don't think there are any Clementine types around these days.

In those days there was an entire cohesive social structure where men and women could meet at dances each week. There was a whole courtship procedure. There were even manuals written on how to use the system for those that needed help. In those days being single was uncommon. You really had to WANT to be single and celebate in order to be single. Basicaly LS is a mid to late 20th century phenomenon due I think to a breakdown of cohessive culteral and social structure.

We are the casualties of our age. If the wrong words come out of your mouth, if you can't string together the sentences the woman is seemingly looking to hear, if you can't perform the correct body language whatever the hell that's suposed to be, then, your fucked.

Women seem to be looking for an indeterminate thing which I have no idea what it is, and clearly I don't have it. It doesn't help by the fact that women also keep knowledge and whereabouts of their meetups strictly classified. There is absolutely no social context inwhich women can be found. The exceptions are when you see gangs of girls on a binge and clearly hostile to male interest. On a Sunday you can see milions of smooching couples.

But as the population of LS people increases, I think ultimately the survival of the human species is in the hands of women. Relations between men and women on the whole are continuing to deteriorate and there is more and more violence against women. The less women deal with male needs, the more frustrated males become. The more frustrated and pissed off males become, the less they are willing to intervene when violent males come on the scene and commit greater and greater acts of violence against women.

We nice guys are more likely to fight for womens freedom and tend to those and other of their needs if women tend to our much simpler and less demanding needs. In the end, males have to risk their lives to protect the vulnerable. Women forget that they are among the vulnerable. Why should I fight for womens rights if these same women view my sexual desires of their bodies with utmost disdain? The answer is I will have no motivation to tend to their needs, if they can't tend to mine.

Women cover their ears. They refuse to listen. What is their fucking problem??? Why do women REFUSE to talk???? It's as if they have a death wish. They want to commit suicide.

Okay. I have had a good read through said book.

Basically, it advocates acting like a fucking psychopath.

Don't waste your time with this shit.

The Emasculation of Men

yesterday, i went over to a friend's complex. we went to his pool/jacuzzi to hang out. three girls were already in the jacuzzi. my friend is just learning the Game, so i pretty much have to handle the entire situation..

we chat for a few mins., flirting back and forth. then one of the girls gets mad because i wouldn't get her shoes for her. she calls me an "asshole" because i refused to fetch them for her. i ask her why she's acting like such a "bitch"?

this is the EPITOME of the Bitch Syndrome; bitches are completely OBLIVIOUS to their own behavior. they are like spoiled little kids who have never been told "NO" before by a MAN. so instead of worrying about addressing me with respect, her first kneejerk reaction is to question my 'DISRESPECTFUL' response. and this is where MOST guys FUCK UP ROYALLY. most guys would side with the girl here because they're TOO EMASCULATED by Feminism to realize that girls are disrespecting them.. most guys actively WORRY about not treating women "respectfully" enough.

women, on the other hand, DO NOT worry if they're being respectful to men. in today's Feminist society, women are not taught about responsibility. they are not held accountable for their behavior so why should they be expected to behave respectfully towards guys. while guys always tell themselves they must approach a girl on eggshells with "respect", girls are busy ENFORCING this submissive attitude. notice women never worry about how they address YOU. however, they ALWAYS examine how YOU address THEM. they ALWAYS remind YOU to be "RESPECTFUL" and address them respectfully. you on the other hand are taught to WORRY about how you address women. you are NEVER taught that women could be wrong. or that they could be disrespecting YOU. in fact, if you ever do try to make such claims, most women and even the vast majority of emasculated men will denounce you as a misogynist, or someone who has "issues", or accuse you of hating your own mother, or any of the typical cliched arguments that Feminists attempts to throw at guys to preserve Feminism's childish philosophy of entitlement; women think they are ENTITLED to your respect. they don't realize that respect is EARNED, not simply doled out like candy for the undeserving.

guys ASSUME that being called an "asshole" is just something they're SUPPOSED TO TAKE LYING DOWN. they assume this is just par for the course growing up. this is why so many guys are TRAINED to respond in a submissive manner and don't know how to insert their will into any interactions with women. they accept a bitch's MISCHARACTERIZATION of events every time.. this is just an example of the typical frame control that girls grow accustomed employing to manipulate guys.

instead of rationally realizing that being called an "asshole" is an INSULT AND A SHOW OF DISRESPECT, guys will let the bitch control the frame, completely dominate the interaction, and focus blame on the man's behavior. Emasculated men will completely neglect being disrespected FIRST by a bitch and will simply start neurotically obsessing over what they did wrong to provoke the bitch.

this is the HALLMARK of an emasculated man who has never told a bitch "NO" before.

now back to the jacuzzi. it's obvious that this bitch was used to dealing with emasculated guys who let her control the frame because every time she insulted me ("asshole", "dickhead") and i simply responded non-chalantly with, "why are you being such a bitch?", she would never think to question her own behavior or her disrespectful approach. she EXPECTED ME to fetch her shoes like an obedient, SUBMISSIVE guy would. being placated by so many SUBMISSIVE men, she was simply taught to always shift the blame for her childish behavior onto the nearest man's shoulders.

so i kept referring to her as a "bitch", without anger, even in a slightly amused way which showed her that i completely disrespected her opinion and completely disregarded her as a person. i make women EARN the right to be treated as a person.

this got her so angry she accused me of being 5 years old WHILE splashing me with water to try and get a reaction out of me haha..

i of course acted like the water was a spray of bullets which made her even more upset.. she finally screamed at the top of her lungs, "I AM NOT A BITCH!!," to the embarrassment of the other girls sitting next her, so that every neighbor around us heard her. i just fell over laughing which only made matters worse for her. she started visibly shaking (possibly gritting her teeth) while her other friends tried to calm her down-- "don't let him get you worked up like that.. he's just an asshole," blah blah blah.

as a professional bitch trainer, i simply treated them like little kids which made them almost explode with rage. at one point, the girls told me not to talk to them. i of course REFRAMED and told THEM not to talk to ME. i even turned my back to them.

but as childish bitches (thanks to Feminism), most women can't even begin to grasp the extent of their hypocrisy. so of course they kept asking me questions WHILE getting angrier and angrier over my answers. they told me to stop talking to them, and yet they could't help but pester me with more questions, wondering where i get the audacity to treat them so "disrespectfully."

again you'll note they never once questioned their own behavior towards me. their only concern was how i was treating THEM. this is how spoiled children react when their parents have never said "NO" to them. it now becomes an exercise in EMOTIONAL logic, throwing tantrums, demanding that i (the parent) do as they say "or else!"

but like a good parent should do, i simply kept invalidating their bad behavior. as a good parent, it's my job to SPANK an unruly child. i did not give in to their childish demands. i simply repeated, "bitch, didn't i just tell you to stop talking to me?"

if you don't give them their way, bitches will continually tell you how irrelevant you are and how lame you sound and how you'll never get laid and how you were raped by your father and hate your mother, etc.. AND YET these same bitches CAN'T HELP BUT CLING TO YOUR EVERY WORD. they aren't trying to convince you. they're trying to convince themselves..

but your words sting and undermine their hypocritical stance. so their only response is to lash out at you. if you really meant nothing to them, they would simply ignore you. BUT THE TRUTH HURTS. so they MUST lash out at you in a vain attempt to make you bend to their will. their wounded self-esteem can't cope with accepting any blame. they've been taught to reject reality because EMASCULATED, SUBMISSIVE guys ALLOW them to remain bitches. these emasculated men never dare to say a negative word in their direction or make them question their own behavior. emasculated men will make EXCUSES for bitch behavior; "you're just tired." etc. they will never dare to make a bitch take RESPONSIBILITY FOR HER WORDS / ACTIONS.

.. the head bitch of this jacuzzi adventure kept yelling at me, "stop calling us 'bitches!!!'"

to which i replied, "bitch, then stop talking to me. how fucking dumb are you? figure it out."

so they stopped talking to me.

for about 30 seconds.

and then more questions and more tantrums.

it's educational to note HOW bitches become bitches in the first place. their blantantly hypocritical and irrational behavior is NEVER PUT IN CHECK by a real man. they are allowed to go emotionally off their rocker. they were shocked that i even dared to talk to them this way.. which is why they simultaneously hated talking to me but yet couldn't help themselves and NEEDED to make me bend to their will like every other guy in their life, which is exactly what spoiled kids are prone to do.. they did not take account of their childish or contradictory behavior. instead the ATTITUDE is REINFORCED by dealing with SUBMISSIVE guys that they can easily shift the blame for their actions onto the guy because the guy WILL ALLOW IT.

in order for the childish bitch behavior exist, a man HAS TO ALLOW IT.

which means that BITCHES are PRODUCED AS A RESULT of SUBMISSIVE, EMASCULATED GUYS not being able to stand up to them or put them in check.

most guys today will TOLERATE disrespectful behavior from a bitch.. a bitch will yell at them and insult them and a guy will try to reason with her and treat her with respect. this is WRONG. this accomplishes NOTHING other than reinforcing the bitch attitude. it's the bitch's prerogative to listen or not listen to a guy she doesn't respect-- guys don't grasp this CRUCIAL point.

they need to DISRESPECT BITCHES THAT DON'T SHOW RESPECT. otherwise they are DISRESPECTING THEMSELVES.

and a guy with NO SELF-RESPECT will not get ANY RESPECT from a woman. which means you can kiss attraction bye bye.

this is not about being a "tough guy" or seeing who can beat up the most people. this is simply about maintaining YOUR SELF-RESPECT. if you're not willing to address someone's disrespectful behavior directly, at the very least, you should not entertain disrespect. you should not humor it. you should not try to justify it or allow it. you should IGNORE IT and leave that person's presence. this is the VERY LEAST of what you should do.. this is not what i would do, or what i will teach you to do.. but this is what ANY guy should do AT THE VERY LEAST.

here at M101, you'll learn to use disrespect to your advantage. we'll cover that in the articles on frame control where you'll learn how to MAKE bitches respect you. women are not attracted to men they don't FIRST respect. either a woman will assign you respect (rockstar, celebrity, police officer, etc.) or you'll have to MAKE her recognize that you are someone who REQUIRES RESPECT.

when you are dealing with a bitch (which will often be a given in a Feminist society) you MUST LEARN TO DISRESPECT her BITCH BEHAVIOR (not her as a woman. there is a big difference.) otherwise you are continuing the cycle of DISRESPECTING YOURSELF. when you ALLOW a bitch to disrespect you, and you don't address it, you're basically saying to her that you're NOT WORTH HER RESPECT. you're sending the message that you have no value. you're basically telling her that you HAVE to respect her because you value HER more than you value YOURSELF. this is a PATHETIC statement about the condition of your own MANHOOD.

when a bitch disrespects me, i do not return the disrespect by respecting her ability to reason coherently and offering her an explanation to combat her assumptions or insults. that means i am DISRESPECTING MYSELF. i FIRST address her DISRESPECT by putting her insult or assumption IN CHECK.

eg.
bitch: (assumption) why are you an such an idiot?

typical guy: (showing no self-respect) i am NOT an idiot. you just don't realize all the ways in which i find solutions to problems.

ok pause.

here we see a bitch offering a DISRESPECTFUL ASSUMPTION. but the problem is 2-fold; the bitch doesn't realize she's being disrespectful and the guy doesn't realize that he's ALLOWING her to DISRESPECT HIM.

the guy FIRST NEEDS TO ADDRESS THE DISRESPECT. this can be done a few ways, but the point is: IT NEEDS TO BE DONE FIRST.

i might start off by saying, "BITCH, are you talking to me?".. now this is more recognizable to a bitch because she's never been called a 'bitch' to her face by a man. she's USED TO walking all over EMASCULATED men.. so SHE, as a woman, handles disrespect the way YOU, AS A MAN, SHOULD handle it. instead of explaining that she is not a bitch (like you would do as an EMASCULATED GUY) she FIRST ADDRESSES YOU DISRESPECTING HER..

bitch: "excuse me???!!! did you just call me a BITCH??!!!"..

isn't it ironic that the bitch is doing exactly what YOU SHOULD BE DOING. she is more of a MAN THAN YOU because she actually addresses being disrespected while you as an EMASCULATED man let it slide.

when i have the bitch's attention, then i tell the bitch, "yeah i called you a BITCH.. are you fucking deaf?"

[please note: this is NO LONGER a "pickup" situation where i'm trying to generate attraction. THIS IS NOW A TEST OF MANHOOD. if i were trying to create attraction, i wouldn't be as direct and i would not add the "are you fucking deaf?" part which is confrontational.

when generating attraction, i'm not trying to create a confrontation. i'd want to treat her as a CHILD which means i'm initially offering her zero respect. which means i'd either ignore her bad behavior and assign it ZERO VALUE or mock the bad behavior while being COMPLETELY AMUSED. this will INFURIATE her and raise your value in her eyes which is the key in generating attraction. remember: to generate attraction, i am trying to raise my perceived value.

BUT since this has degraded from generating attraction into a confrontation, i no longer treat her as a child. instead, i treat her like dogshit. this means i am doing things to actively undermine her self-esteem WITHOUT validating her, without restoring lost value to her.

with attraction, i want to invalidate bad behavior and validate good behavior..this creates value for myself which will spark ATTRACTION.

in a confrontation where attraction no longer applies, i am simply invalidating and undermining her self-esteem-- essentially, i am putting the bitch IN CHECK-- there is no validation.]

this let's the bitch know that I WILL NOT TOLERATE DISRESPECT. she now knows that she must RESPECTFULLY APPROACH me in order to engage me, or the result is an invalidation of her behavior-- i.e. i disrespect her right back. either that or she will attempt to reframe my behavior by mischaracterizing it to shift the responsibility back onto my shoulders. most bitches will attempt to do this a few times to test your frame, to test your will, to test your expectations. they will not realize their behavior is childish. instead they will test your frame to see whether you will ALLOW yourself to be disrespected because it's much easier for a bitch to shift blame for her actions onto you than to confront the issue of her own behavior. or worse, confess her behavior actually IS childish.

now, this isn't the only way to invalidate bitch behavior. but the PRINCIPLE remains the same--address the DISRESPECT FIRST.

if you are completely submissive and have never confronted a bitch before in your life, you might start out with, "excuse me but if you're going to address me in that disrespectful manner, then don't bother talking to me." this is less effective because it doesn't FOCUS on her behavior as much as it acknowledges your standard or expectation of respect; you will only speak to people who FIRST show you respect.

now, i WILL speak to people who show me disrespect, but the key difference is, my addressing such persons will REFLECT their disrespect towards me. i will become a mirror for their behavior in order to highlight it.

stubborn childish bitches will become frustrated and throw tantrums. this will effectively weed them out. and bitches who are simply used to dealing with submissive guys will learn to show me respect when dealing with me.. this will make them more enjoyable to deal with.. this will also cause attraction to build in a number of them as they realize i am not the typical submissive guy who always gives them their way regardless of how they treat me. i will have generated value in their eyes.

when you respect yourself, this is attractive to women. and kryptonite to bitches.

...so back to the jacuzzi. after these bitches threw their tantrum and realized they couldn't change my frame one bit, they resorted to the next best thing-- TELLING. this is also a HALLMARK of BITCH behavior and a typical BITCH TACTIC that you will encounter in the field.

bitches know that certain guys won't give them their way. but they also know that for every real man, there are 20 EMASCULATED men who WILL cater and defer to their whims. they will seek out such EMASCULATED men to whine and complain to about the real men who won't give them their way.

the legal system we have today is just a glorified version of this "i'm telling!!!", professional victim-based microcosm; bitches realize that there are always men at hand to be manipulated into accomodating their childish whims. so instead of trying to battle me with their tantrums, they will now try to get other EMASCULATED men to enforce their childish will.

in this case, their next reaction was to call our complex security and lie about what happened. they said my friend (who remained silent the whole time-- remember he's shy around girls and has no Game) and i had "harassed and assaulted" them. in the bitch world, hurting their self-esteem equates to "assault". calling a girl a "bitch" constitutes assault in a spoiled child's world. (does that mean that her calling me an "asshole" is also assault? leave it to a bitch to disregard her hypocritical line of reasoning.)

but you can see the extent to which bitches will go to enforce their frame, expectations and will upon you.. which means that men aren't going far enough to enforce theirs. bitches will lie and involve the legal system just to get their childish whims met. this is no different than today's political climate where EMASCULATED men in divorce cases are silenced by OTHER EMASCULATED men (the judges) in the court system who carry out the orders of these childish bitches. if you think i'm exaggerating, you haven't talked to men going thru divorces yet.

men need to realize that the dating world is just a small slice of the bigger world out there.. men need to start standing up for their rights and demand bitches treat them with respect, otherwise they will forfeit those rights and respect to childish bitches.

to finish this long story, when a security guard did come over to address us, i simply gave him the full story. i told them the bitches were lying and that my friend was there to prove it. i simply stood up for myself. even if my friend hadn't been there, i would have said the same thing.

the reason men have put themselves in this cornered position is because they have been forfeiting their respect to bitches for too long. for YEARS. DECADES. bitches definitely aren't made overnight. it takes a long process of bad training, bad parenting, bad social frames, etc. before a woman becomes a bitch. so this is the FIRST place men need to take a stand when dealing with bitches.

once your self-respect is compromised, your very rights and freedoms as men are soon to follow.

(btw, after they left, the security guard, who i knew, had a good laugh over the crazy bitches. the other moral to this story: be good to your security guards haha:)

here's an example of something he had written a while back while on was on his forums. Do you really believe he is "psyco", or do you believe that the way he treats these women is a "necessary evil"?